View Full Version : Where do you set up at Receptions?


Denny Kyser
August 1st, 2011, 08:05 AM
We normally try and set up by the DJ since we are on good terms with all of them, heck have even bailed them out lending audio equipment when theirs has failed. We all work well together and its nice having all the distractions behind the dance floor.

Another thread I started on lighting made me wonder though is this the best place when you factor in that you will need lighting to even come close to seeing the bride and groom. Now the lights, even pretty dim are facing the guests. I suppose if I take them high and angle down using the barn doors this may not be too distracting but looking for other opinions too.

Chris Harding
August 1st, 2011, 08:34 AM
All the decent brides here give the photog and videographer their own table ..nicely out of the way so we can get to anywhere fast without having to excuse ourselves from other guests.

For the few that don't provide I setup as you do..near the DJ so at least I can liase and chat!!

Chris

George Kilroy
August 1st, 2011, 08:53 AM
Chris, It's interesting to discover the subtle differences in wedding day customs around the world. In my experience the DJ doesn't turn up until just before the evening party, typically about 7pm, then spends time setting up and going straight into playing music. The only times I've ever seen DJ's at the reception (i.e. the meal) is if he is a personal friend of the bride and groom. Another common thing that I've noticed is that soon after he arrives (and incidentally it is almost invariably a he) the groom, best-man or bride's father will offer to buy him a beer, before he's even done anything, yet rarely if ever is that hospitality extended to me who has been there all day (not that I would as I never drink alcohol on a job), but the offer would be appreciated.

Sorry getting off on a moan now after a gruelling double wedding weekend.

Denny Kyser
August 1st, 2011, 09:29 AM
Chris, It's interesting to discover the subtle differences in wedding day customs around the world. In my experience the DJ doesn't turn up until just before the evening party, typically about 7pm, then spends time setting up and going straight into playing music. The only times I've ever seen DJ's at the reception (i.e. the meal) is if he is a personal friend of the bride and groom. Another common thing that I've noticed is that soon after he arrives (and incidentally it is almost invariably a he) the groom, best-man or bride's father will offer to buy him a beer, before he's even done anything, yet rarely if ever is that hospitality extended to me who has been there all day (not that I would as I never drink alcohol on a job), but the offer would be appreciated.

Sorry getting off on a moan now after a gruelling double wedding weekend.

I have one of these weekends coming up this weekend.

I agree its so different how things unfold in different parts of the country.

George Kilroy
August 1st, 2011, 09:47 AM
Hi Denny.

I seem to have swerved your thread, I realise that you were asking about setting up to record the dancing, not join in a meal.
I usually set two small cameras (Sony CX550) with LED lights high to either side of the DJ's desk, pointing down to give wide cover of the dance floor.I can dim the lights to give the required light fill without flooding the DJ's lighting effects. I use lighting stands as they have a smaller footprint than tripods.
My main camera is tripod mounted slightly above head height looking out across the floor so the guests are in the background with the couple dancing in front of them. That way I get the benefit of the DJs lights on them. If the situation allows for it and they are not moving around too much, I'll lock of the main camera and go freestyle with a hand-held camera in amongst the guests to get the DJ desk in the background. Again if the situation allows for it I'll put one of the Sonys across the floor facing inwards towards the DJ'd desk instead of one either side.

Don Bloom
August 1st, 2011, 01:30 PM
Setup? Heck, I'm on the dance floor. I'm not a fly on the wall, everyone knows I'm there and I get my best footage being out there. I don't get in anyones way stay far enough back to insure that but I like to do roundy rounds for the 1stdance, F-D dance, M-S dance and frankly I hate zooming in to get tigher shots. During open dance, I'm on the floor as well and I just have to watch where I'm going so I don't bump into people or vice versa.

Corey Graham
August 1st, 2011, 01:38 PM
Setup? Heck, I'm on the dance floor. I'm not a fly on the wall, everyone knows I'm there and I get my best footage being out there. I don't get in anyones way stay far enough back to insure that but I like to do roundy rounds for the 1stdance, F-D dance, M-S dance and frankly I hate zooming in to get tigher shots. During open dance, I'm on the floor as well and I just have to watch where I'm going so I don't bump into people or vice versa.

Same here. I don't set up any stationary cameras, as I like a variety of shots, and don't want to keep cutting to the same angles all night. I'm on the dance floor for the whole reception, unless I do an interview or something. 4 or 5 hours of weaving between people, getting down low, standing up on chairs to get high angle shots . . . I love it all, and staying on my feet makes the reception go by like nothing.

George Kilroy
August 1st, 2011, 03:39 PM
As I said in a post at the start of this tread, it's interesting to see the variety of approaches to recording weddings. My principal is that I'm there to record their day, not be part of it. If I want to go dancing I leave my camera at home, I don't find much value in the shaky shots I'd get reeling around the dance floor.

Peter Rush
August 1st, 2011, 03:39 PM
Same here - I'm right there amongst the dancing with my Z1 set wide and Swit LED light - I can dim it to keep the 'mood' of the DJs lights

Makes the viewer think they're right there IMO

P :)

Denny Kyser
August 1st, 2011, 04:04 PM
Some good replies here but to be honest I can not imagine doing much flying around the dance floor with most of my clients.

I am also a full time photographer and I can tell you MY brides hate to have a photographer or videographer in the pictures.

Again I know ego and pride plays a roll, but I try and play nice with everyone at a wedding. From the DJ, Videographer or Photographer, catering people and guests. There are many people wanting to see that first dance, father daughter, mother son dance and I want to be as out of the way as I can and still capture the reactions and emotions.

Not saying what you guys do is wrong just not my style and my brides know my style and keep booking me so will keep on keeping on.

Don Bloom
August 1st, 2011, 04:05 PM
I agree, everyone has a different take on what they do to document the day. As for being a part of the day, well, I am. I'm there with them for 10 to 12 hours. I'm at the ceremony, postceremony and reception and while I don't dance at the reception (ask my wife, I don't dance at all--I'd just as soon have a root canel with pain killers) I also don't get shaky footage. I generally use a DVMultirig which makes the footage nice and smooth but when I do go handheld (like when the dance floor is packed to the hilt) I can still hold steady long enough to get the footage I need before I move. Keep in mind that if I have 2 hours of reception footage they might only see 1/2 of that. I pick and choose what I use and am not adverse to time shifting but that's my edit style.
It is interesting how everyone has a different view. Not wrong, not right, just different.
Just wondering also how much of the differences in style is region or area of the country or world related? Hmmm, that could be an interesting survey.

Denny Kyser
August 1st, 2011, 04:35 PM
It is interesting how everyone has a different view. Not wrong, not right, just different.
Just wondering also how much of the differences in style is region or area of the country or world related? Hmmm, that could be an interesting survey.

Exactly correct. I did photography in Georgia before I moved up to northwest Pa.
Down there its much more relaxed and I had a large percentage of brides and grooms who did their photos before the ceremony.

I have been up here for many years, and do 20-30 weddings a year and have had 1, ONE, Uno do this.
I have even offered discounts so we can get those bridal magazine shots. Nope, not happening LOL

I have to explain to them that the huge window of time they allow us between wedding and reception (30 minutes) is not enough to go do cool location work and still get all the formals at the alter. Yes, alter images are HUGE here and EVERY wedding I do wants and expects them.

Philip Howells
August 1st, 2011, 04:38 PM
First, like George, when I read the title of the thread I was thinking of the wrong thing - in the UK the term "Reception" usually refers to the wedding breakfast, not the first dance/shenanigans afterwards.

Second, it really depends on how the couple handle their first dance and what the shenanigans are. If the couple have paid for a choreographer to design a poor mans Strictly routine (a trend from a year back), then we go to their rehearsal and do a sort of camera plot based on what inanities the choreographer has devised.

If they're doing the more usual Hollywood Shuffle - a sort of shifting of the balance from one foot to the other whilst holding each other's buttocks - before waving madly to urge other couples to share their embarrassment, we tend to move around them if only to bring some life to the show.

After that I suppose we usually degenerate into the sort of camera techniques the BBC used to teach in the days of Pans People on TOTP. For those younger and/or outside the UK these would have been defined as "upskirt" shots had the Pan's People dancers been wearing skirts and TOTP is the popular abbreviation for Top of the Pops.

Seriously, how many different ways are there to shoot people who've drunk too much and can't dance but who are thoroughly enjoying themselves doing things of which they won't want to be reminded the following morning? I am rather surprised how many people have replied to this thread with such studied seriousness but Don is right, there's no right or wrong way. However, I commend Don for being able to find up to 60 minutes of identifiably different material to include in each clients' video or did I mess up the maths?

When I've decided to give up this part of my career I shall be sorely tempted to include a collage of the dancing from the other weddings we've shot that year and see if anyone notices.

Denny Kyser
August 1st, 2011, 04:54 PM
Phillip, well said and I definitely meant the dancing not the breakfast.
I agree 100% that there is no right or wrong way, its what you have sold to your client and what you are comfortable doing.

Our weddings over the last few years seem to be loading the reception to move from introduction, first dance, wedding party dance, cake cutting, toast, Dinner, F/D - MS dances, garter, bouquet toss then dollar dance.

They do this to get all the important stuff done early and then eat. Order changes somewhat but I miss the days when they were introduced then ate, allowing us to set up better lighting etc.

We strongly encourage to allow us a few minutes to set up lighting, do white balances etc, and once in a while get 20-25 minutes to do so, other times we get 10 but that comes with the territory.

George Kilroy
August 1st, 2011, 05:20 PM
Denny it seems that the structure of the wedding day is different here. Here the wedding dinner (or breakfast as it is traditionally called) is usually in the afternoon, before any dancing. It ends with speeches and cake cutting, or vice versa. Then there is usually a lull, depending on the time of the wedding, when additional guests arrive and the DJ sets up. Dancing is more often than not decided on when the DJ thinks it's the right time. It may just be the weddings that I go to but very few have a structured timetable or plans for the evening such as particular dances or bouquet throwing. Some do attempt a choreographed routine, as Philip alluded to but most just shuffle hoping not to have to spend too long on their own on the dance floor. As for recording hours of footage, I stay for 30 minutes after the first dance and that's it. I cut that down to about 10-15 minutes screen time. I use to stay until the (bitter) end of the evening but often spent more time de-boning the evening to make it a watchable length than I did on the rest of the day; now I'm away by 9pm.There are so many friends with phones, cameras and camcorders who'll grab all those embarrassing moment for them to put on their facebook page.

Denny Kyser
August 1st, 2011, 06:28 PM
I need to re work my coverages for the receptions. Our brides think they want all the dancing but its like watching paint dry editing it. And I seriously doubt they ever really watch it.

I think the 30 minutes after first dance seems about right, and like you said edit that down to 15 minutes.

Chris Harding
August 1st, 2011, 06:39 PM
I'm much the same as Don and on my feet most of the time at the reception. Our receptions usually begin at 6pm with pre-dinner drinks for the guests and I also do interviews with them before they get too many drinks under their belts!! Ours usually have the bride arrival at 6:30/6:45pm and then dinner, followed by speeches. The only time I'm not moving around a fair amount is speeches where CamA is on tripod filming the unlucky few who have to make a speech and unless I have a 2nd shooter, I'm running around filming guest reactions...if the FOB talks about Aunt Gladys, then I need to get over to her table so I have a cutaway shot of her!!

Unless they are doing dancing in a circle (then I'm inside the circle) I also do roundy rounds on the perimeter of the dance floor so the footage is not boring and taken from a fixed point. Apart from the one fixed cam during speeches the rest of the reception is all handheld..no tripods at all!!! Then again we are using nice stable shoulder-mount cameras!! Plus I use a DVEng rig to help make the cam even smoother!

Chris

Don Bloom
August 1st, 2011, 08:31 PM
Yeah Denny, I do the first dance, F-D and M-S dance in full then usually the next 40 minutes or so then I start kind of pickin and choosing. For editing they get the "special dances" in full then the rest is in short clips (about 1:30 to 1:50) and dissolving the music so it blends nicely. Of course each is a bit different but that at least is the plan. I don't do interviews but I do look for the unusual, fun, oof beat type of thing as well. After all, how much of Aunt Harry and Uncle Sally doing the twist can one take. (apologiys to anyone who has an Aunt Harry or Uncle Sally). Plus for the most part once the DJ or band leader announces the dance floor is open I'm there for about an hour or slightly more maybe an hour 10. Generally after bouquet and garter (if they do it) I'm done, if they don't I time it out so I'm done about when it would have been done. That is plenty of footage for me and them and yes they do watch it. Maybe not all the way thru everytime but I know they watch the dancing. How? Last week I got a call from the Mother of the Bride complaining I didn't shoot more people dancing. I politely explained that when there were on 9 people on the floor at pretty much any given time I can't just magically make more appear. She asked why I didn't go to the DJ and have him make an announcement about dancing. I simply asked her "really?" I then explained to her that that was not in my service agreement nor am I responsible for the DJ who was a friend of the mothers and not at all professional. I won't go any further about this converation but well let's just say she didn't like my answers to why I didn't make more people go on the dance floor.
Anyway the actual time of open dancing is generally in the area of about 30 minutes which is in my mind plenty. Add the intros, cake cutting, blessing, toasts, special dances, bouquet and garter and BAM! about 50 to 60 minutes of reception. Been doing it this way for years. Works for me.
YMMV!
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Chris Harding
August 1st, 2011, 10:06 PM
Hey Don

You do a lot!! I will do the first dance and then the song after it usually so that's maybe under 10 minutes!
Then during the general dancing I'll add maybe 4 songs tops (say around 12 minutes) That only changes if they have any special dances that would enhance the production..I had one bride specifically want the "limbo" filmed as well as a huge conga line...I can see the value of "specialised" dancing but surely it's boring watching people just wiggle their bodies for 40 minutes ????

At my last weekend's wedding the bride hurried thru the formalities "to get more dancing time" and while the dance floor was generally empty, when the odd few (I think I counted 10 people tops!!) danced it was only for one song!! When that happens it's tough to film when there's nothing to film!!!

Chris

Philip Howells
August 1st, 2011, 11:35 PM
I guess we all have the problem of empty dance floors and all have to explain that we can't CGI in extra dancers. We then get the "well everyone was dancing later". Of course I apologise and explain the terms in case that actually happened but in reality I doubt if they have a clear recall of how many people were actually dancing at any given time. Some parties are dancing parties, others aren't.

I was chatting to the DJ before the first dance at a recent wedding and opined that the songs that seem to get even the most moribund party dancing are Mama Mia and the Scissor Sisters' "I don't feel like dancing" and that I'd never seen them fail. 20 minutes later I was saying to him that I'd only once seen them fail to get the dancing going!.

George Kilroy
August 2nd, 2011, 02:32 AM
One of the reasons I use fixed cameras is to try and get some shots which don't have the photographer dancing around between me and the couple. I sometimes think, to paraphrase Princess Diana, there are three of them in this wedding dance. Two's company, threes a crowd, four would be a mob.

I'm trying to remember back to when it became de rigueur for the photographer, or two, to stay for the evening dancing for the sake of two or three still shots.

Alen Koebel
August 8th, 2011, 12:21 PM
I guess we all have the problem of empty dance floors and all have to explain that we can't CGI in extra dancers.Why not? You could charge extra for it. ;-)

Alen Koebel
August 8th, 2011, 12:23 PM
One of the reasons I use fixed cameras is to try and get some shots which don't have the photographer dancing around between me and the couple. I sometimes think, to paraphrase Princess Diana, there are three of them in this wedding dance. Two's company, threes a crowd, four would be a mob.Interesting to hear that sometimes it's not just the amateur shooters (otherwise known as guests) who are spoiling the shots. (See the thread I started for context.)