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Noa Put
March 29th, 2013, 03:39 PM
Bit weird title but that's what the case for me now; last week Wednesday I received a mail if I could take over a wedding from another videographer who was too sick, I had contact by phone with her, she send me all the details by mail, then she contacted the client explaining that she was too sick to do the wedding but that she found another videographer (me) that would take over from her. The client was ok with that so no problem.

There was only one small issue, the sick videographer had already received a 30% advanced deposit from the client that she would transfer to me.

I check out her website to get an idea what her style was (handheld docu) and adapted mine to that since the client did choose for that. I did the wedding Saturday and all went well.

Now I mail the videographer to deal with the deposit but she doesn't answer my mail, I send a new one, still no reply, I phone her but get an answering machine and leave a message, still no response and I called her several times today getting the answering machine each time.

My first thought was that she might have been hospitalized, which is a possibility, but then I found out yesterday her website is gone, and that is very weird. She has been doing weddings for years and has had a online presence during all that time so it's not like she just started.

I do hope she is alright but the missing website made me suspicious, I talked to the client today telling above story (as I can deliver the dvd's next week) but not sure how I have to deal with this, I can't ask them to pay me in full so they have to deal with getting the 30% deposit back, or can I? If I invoice them the remaining 70% only then I have to go after the other videographer to get my remaining 30%.

This is the first time I encounter something like this, has anyone else ever had to deal with such a situation? I hope it will all turn out alright and that it was just a silly misunderstanding but it got me thinking what to do if I ever run in a similar situation.

Don Bloom
March 29th, 2013, 03:45 PM
I do hope she is alright but the missing website made me suspicious, I talked to the client today telling above story but not sure how I have to deal with this, I can't ask them to pay me in full so they have to deal with getting the 30% deposit back, or can I? If I invoice them the remaining 70% only then I have to go after the other videographer to get my remaining 30%.

Noa,
this is truly a weird situation but honestly it seems to me that the only way to handle this is the way you just described and they have to get the deposit back since they are the ones that made the deposit to the other person. If I were you I would also have them sign paperwork turning the job over to you and you should be prepared do the job for the 70% only and if you get the other 30% or any part of it, be happy, don't worry and lesson learned.
BTW, I do hope nothing bad has happened to the other videographer.

James Manford
March 29th, 2013, 04:38 PM
Is it just a coincidence her website has gone down? may be her hosting has expired and she hasn't renewed it.

And she is hospitalized.

Wait it out for a bit and see what happens. Atleast you will get paid the 70% so it isn't a complete loss just yet.

Im sure she has a good reason.

Jim Schuchmann
March 29th, 2013, 05:14 PM
Noa,

My contract specifically says that "the contract cannot be assigned without the consent of both parties."

Read the other contract before making any decisions. You may find out that you are not able to collect from the other vid.

Chris Harding
March 29th, 2013, 06:02 PM
Hey Noa

As the saying goes "half a loaf is better than none" and you have at least got 70% and a happy client who might even give you some good referrals. All you can do is accept the balance from the client (rather keep her happy!) and then if you are unable to retrieve the rest it's not that bad. Yeah, hope the videographer is actually OK!

Chris

Dave Blackhurst
March 29th, 2013, 11:00 PM
It could be there are health issues, or other financial things going on, or both. My first thought is that the client is ultimately the one getting the "full" service you are delivering, and should be the one responsible to get the 30%.

It sounds like this is a "developing story", I think you should let the client know the other vendor has NOT paid/transferred the agreed upon deposit and you are unable to contact her - if they are still "on honeymoon" you may have to wait to bring them up to speed? That may allow things to resolve themselves, if you're lucky. But letting them know there is/may be an issue ASAP would at least be the professional thing and hopefully help you get the whole amount before delivery.

In theory you should collect the full 100%, and not be "out". One factor might be how the amount relates to your "usual" charges? IOW, if 70% of this job is close to your "100%", you're at least "covered".

The problem lies with the "mystery videographer", who is NOT entitled to the 30%, but has now "disappeared" - the clients could certainly consider contacting media or law enforcement to lodge complaints, and that might get results if you're being "ignored".

Just be sure you are the consummate professional so you don't end up being the object of anger/frustration - you're the "good guy" who stepped in to save the day, hang onto that high ground!

Hopefully it will all work out fine, but somehow I suspect the other vendor may have more "issues" than illness, just don't end up being burned if you can help it!

Noa Put
March 30th, 2013, 02:02 AM
I think I will not charge the client that full amount, the thing is I don't have a contract with them because it was a last minute booking (I spoke on Wednesday with the videographer and on Friday with the client and did their wedding on Saturday) and since the only written and signed agreement they have is with their old videographer I"ll just let them pay the 70% and try to get the remaining 30% myself. (I called the videographer again just now and she still doesn't answer her phone)

Next time I"ll ask to transfer any deposits the same day I first have contact with the videographer, this might be very important when they received full balance just before a wedding in which case I might end up getting nothing for the job. It probably will just turn out alright but it's good that it happens so I know what to do when it happens again, maybe even make a new agreement with the "new" couple that needs to be signed and delivered before the wedding that they will cover for any deposit's made if those are not transferred by the other videographer (meaning they should always pay me in full) and that it's their responsibility to get those deposits back.

James Manford
March 30th, 2013, 02:46 AM
I know you said she's a well established videographer judging from her website...

But I can't help but wonder as it also sounds like a very profitable scam.

Bait clients into giving you 30% deposit, find another videographer last minute. Remove website, disconnect simcard.

Repeat steps again with a different company name.

The videographer is unlikely to go to the police over 30% the client is happy.

You have cowboy builders, you also have cowboy videographers.

I wish this isn't the case.

Noa Put
March 30th, 2013, 02:50 AM
I can't believe it's that bad, a videographer I know that attends wedding fairs (not sure if that's the right name but think you know what I mean) has seen her there for several years as well trying to sell her services and she has been in the game at least as long as I have. There must be something completely else going on here, it was only the removed website (which is still not online btw) at the same time she stopped responding that made it weird.

James Manford
March 30th, 2013, 04:01 AM
There you go then. She obviously has a legitimate reason.

See what happens, but realistically speaking there isn't much else you can do with out causing a headache for yourself.

Roger Gunkel
March 30th, 2013, 06:10 AM
The couple must have the other videographer's address if there was an exchange of contracts. Why not just pay her a visit!

Roger

Jeff Harper
March 30th, 2013, 06:50 AM
Noa, I completely agree with your way of seeing this. You will collect the 70%, so you are getting paid, just not top dollar. Ideally you should get the whole thing, of course. However, by you choosing to just go with it and getting it done you can put it behind you and concentrate on your life instead of getting caught up in drama, which you do not need.

Noa Put
March 30th, 2013, 07:05 AM
Why not just pay her a visit!

She lives about a 1,5 hour drive from me but if I haven't heared anything by next Tuesday I"m driving to her place since I need to be in that area for work next week.

Jeff Harper
March 30th, 2013, 07:20 AM
I want to know how this mystery ends! Please let us know!

Noa Put
March 30th, 2013, 07:43 AM
I have already been contacted for the rights to make a movie, I"ll make sure you all get filmtickets. :D
Yeah, once this gets solved I"ll post a update.

Dave Blackhurst
March 30th, 2013, 12:25 PM
Two other things to consider -

YOU have the CONTENT, and presuming the clients want the video, that is one point in your favor - most people aren't going to get angry over someone refusing to turn something of value over, if they aren't being paid in full for it - the clients have a beef with their FORMER vidoegrapher... make sure to keep the focus on that.

Two, I've got no idea of how "oral contracts" are handled in Belgium, but you have an "oral agreement", and that should have some weight in light of it not being completed after you performed your part in good faith.



At least you've got "70%", presuming the clients have it and will pay that portion, if it's acceptable, you can certainly take it and make them happy, it NEVER hurts to be the guy who did the right thing (even though some say no good deed does unpunished...).

It's odd that the website went dark (have you done a whois to check the backstory on the domain, if it was a top level one?), the phone is unanswered, and there's money due... all at the same time... OTOH, it would be pretty odd for a "scam" to include "covering" an obligation - normally scammers just vanish as soon as they have the money, and cover their tracks with "fake" contact info and such. The possibility of a serious health issue seems most likely, or perhaps some severe personal difficulties...

Noa Put
March 30th, 2013, 02:06 PM
have you done a whois to check the backstory on the domain, if it was a top level one?
I get a page with this message "This page is generated by Parallels Plesk Panel, the leading hosting automation software. You see this page because there is no Web site at this address."

Not loosing any sleep over it right now :) I just finished editing the couples wedding and will be meeting them in 10 days to deliver so should know much more by then.

Glen Vandermolen
March 30th, 2013, 02:41 PM
Interesting development.
Personally, I'd settle for the 70%. Chalk up the other 30% to a client finder's fee for the missing videographer. After all, it could lead to more clients for you.
I wouldn't bother the married couple. I'd rather they enjoy their honeymoon, without having to worry about the deal you made with the videographer. They had no part in it. All they know is they paid for a service. I'm sure they don't care how the money is split, just as long as they get the finished product.

Phill Pendleton
March 30th, 2013, 11:39 PM
Being ill she might have shut down her website as she might not be well enough to answer enquirers - no point advertising if you are incapacitated. Same for phone switched off, might need some space to recover. Hope this is the case. Your taking the job on was a wonderful thing to do, no doubt relieving the stress of the videographer and making the wedding a special day.
I'd take the 70% from the Bride and Groom and wait for a while for the 30%, not the Bride and Grooms concern. No Point stressing them out and as stated before, might get you some referrals.
Hope all ends well.

Chris DeVoe
March 31st, 2013, 01:33 AM
Use the Internet Archive Wayback Machine (http://archive.org/index.php) to see just how long her website has been around.

Bob Hart
March 31st, 2013, 01:54 AM
My guess, if she has been in the industry for a while and has suddenly gone off the radar, there may be something compelling and urgent happening, either the illness she has declared or domestic violence even may have forced her to go underground. There's no knowing. Medical or relationship issues are going to be kept confidential by service providers, so I doubt you will learn the entire story unless she advises you directly.

Whether it is a scam or not, I think you have served your industry well. Make sure the client knows and remembers you as the deliverer of their final product and instruct them that they should not pay any furthur bills that are sent to them from the original contractor.

My guess is the 30% you may have to write off as a loss-leader. It will be worth it in the long run, not to complicate the lives of the married couple, as they may yet refer other clients to you based on your good work.

Noa Put
March 31st, 2013, 03:20 AM
We can stop guessing as she send me an email yesterday evening, no explanation what happened but she wasn't sick anymore, she was going to transfer the deposit. Her website is still off-line though.

Chris Harding
March 31st, 2013, 03:45 AM
Hey Noa

Shucks!! There go the movie rights and the intriguing story of the videographer who disappeared off the face of the earth ...would have made rivetting watching but now we never get to see it.

However it's good to know that you are getting your 30% now!!

Chris

Adrian Tan
April 2nd, 2013, 12:18 PM
Yeah, you can't leave it at that, Noa! Ask her what happened. Story needs a conclusion. (And this thread might need to be transferred to members' only section as well.)

Noa Put
April 2nd, 2013, 01:08 PM
I"m a bit annoyed that I don't even get an apology for keeping me in the dark like that, you can be too sick and I don't need any details but just a reason, now it is like nothing happened, I responded to her last email with a another question but I don't get a response to that either. I"m dunno, if I need to take over again I will ask a copy of the contract first and a immediate transfer of any deposit to either the client or my account so I don't have to waste time anymore chasing ghosts :)

Al Gardner
April 2nd, 2013, 02:58 PM
Noa,
I would take the 70% and cut my losses. I think if you continue to pursue this person you will wind up causing harm to your own reputation.

Let it go.

AL

Noa Put
April 2nd, 2013, 03:17 PM
She said she was going to transfer the deposit so lets wait and see.

Steven Davis
April 10th, 2013, 05:49 AM
Man, I was just thinking Tom Cruise could be the star.............. but he's kind of old.